Sunday supplement of most famous daily had this article it talked about “quick flings” and how these flings end in the cozy comfort of one’s bedroom. Though those involved are more so in an un-indulged affair. I don’t think it’s a new trend in the upcoming yuppie metropolis like us, nevertheless it is gaining momentum. Well, I think I’ve successfully complicated the interpretation of that article. To put it simply it talked about “Fuck Buddies”
The article laid more emphasis on the psychosomatic implications of such affairs. In the urge of gratifying the fleshy prodding, people are failing to understand the fact that these natural processes of life are intricately spun into human eco-system. One cannot annul these basics before effortlessly indulging in such physical acts. According to experts, such hedonistic acts cause serious emotional trauma to those who are involved.
There was something very remarkable about the article which invoked a strong feeling in me to write this post. My mind is not trying to dissect and scrutinize such casual relationships from the morality angle. I can not resist, but want to try and understand the psychosis that could drive any individual’s will to be in a non committal affair but yet enjoy the physical intimacy with no frills. It’s very unfortunate that I know no such thrill seeker neither aware of any such “friends with benefits” club.
Apparently, I researched more about such relationships, I figured out that these are far different from the infamous “one night stands” people might call me naive in this area cos my ship never ventured far into the deep dark sea. (No, I didn’t dare to find myself a “Fuck Buddy”) I had to let my imagination afloat through the nuances of such psychedelic experience. My curiosity almost smothering my thoughts;
I remembered, one of my chatty friend had causally mentioned that “sex gives kicks” he says it is a normal physical process it relieves you of stress and rejuvenates mind, body and soul. Well, it definitely does. But will it matter for you to know which among these three you are trying to gratify the most. Solely pleasing your bodily urge, does it have any correlation with your mind? Yes, it’s a Universal truth, isn’t it? Every time you see this desirable anatomy of your partner and you relinquish this sexual demon in you, your mind stimulates, millions of neurons explode in your brain. Your body bows out to your mind. You have consciously or subconsciously structured the act of making love. If it be true then most important sexual organ I think one needs is BRAIN!!!
If it is gratification of fleshly prodding, it is simply the thought of it not just the act. Whether or not your physical indulgence is heightened by other parts of your anatomy it is our brain which enjoys the most. Therefore, if you reason it out well enough, you’ve arrived. Claiming pleasure with or without emotional frills, it all begins at the “top” Eureka! I'm not trying to reinvent the wheel. But the very thought and cocktail of emotions leading to art of making love amuses everyone I guess. It’s not just a fuck. It’s totally a “Cerebral Fuck”
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